It is just something you will have to try. If you think your wife is hinting that she would like to try it ask her. Start out slow with a slap or two durning doggie or just playing around as she walks by you. if she likes try new things like acrossed the bed, on her knees on the floor with her head on the bed, on her hands and knees, or the one that I luv pull her over your knee and pull her skirt up and panties down around her knees. slowly turning her bumm red as I tease her along the way by rubbing her wettness and then a spank or two. but it is all about what she likes. Just try it and have fun.