Completely agree the above.

Do SAFE SEX. Lots of stuff you might read here are just fantasy and that is different from reality, the 80's and 90's took a toll. I know two people who died from illnesses related to losing their immune system and for more eloquent words on this please read "The Man with Night Sweats" by Thom Gunn.

Anal is ok but use lube - lots of it and use condoms.

Andrew