This was very thought provoking....but my opinion doesn't even come close to any of that "you either are or your not".

I beleive that we all are born in generally the same way. And we all conform to life in the same general way when we are small. We learn things like sucking, eating, drinking, and then so on to walking,running and learning to ride a bike and so forth.

As far as feelings you feel the way you feel. Some choose to ignore certain feelings, some tend to embrace them and then there are those who are curious enough to want to see what these feelings are about. So they experiment, they try and test, they see what they like. That is where I beleive most people fit in.

Just take a look at all of us here at this "home" we have created. We all have a hiden side when it comes to sex. We accept that others like different things and we even get to ask questions and learn as open minded people with out the stigma of the people that look down and judge others for being curious about sex or all things sexual. We even get to express our opinion on certain things, have active discussions and learn from each other.

I personally have learned so much more from my family here than I have from others I know in person. I just wish we could have a convention of some type so we could all get to really meet each other.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.