About 2 months into the relationship is not long at all.....I'd be thinking, any issues with an ex that causes such a negative effect on the current relationship, must be issues that should have been dealt with before the new relationship started. I'd be heading for the door saying, call me when you've sorted your head out.

As I suspected as I read this thread, and as Lil pointed out, the lack of sex is the least of your worries in this situation. You need to examine why on earth the activities of his ex are continuing to have such a strong effect on him.

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