I can relate to this problem myself. However, going from what im reading, it is the opposite for me and mine. I am the sexless partner. (due to a medical problem)

The wife claims that toy and fingers are enough and seems to be serious. I know there will be no cheating due to her religious scruples. (Morman)

I love her to death and am trying different ideas for a solution, however to no avail so far.

Its not fun nor is it easy to post this. But I can definately relate and would be willing to discuse this Tigerlily if you feel like chatting.

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