To clarify... this child will be 6 in May....it has been almost six years since the bomb dropped and the sex never recovered. He makes comments like he wants to have sex sometimes, but will back off if I take him up on it. He's got his hands up my shirt a great deal of the time, but it had gotten to the point where it just annoys me... it's like that joke about mad cow disease...you'd be mad too if someone played with your tits everyday but only fucked you once a year.