I am a switch And proud of it. Depending on my mood.. I can be either dominatant or submissive. There are times where I want to be the one who is pleasured.. on his whim... to allow him to make the moves.. to allow him to decide what cums next (or who)... and then there are other times... when he wouldn't stand a chance...LOL.. when I don't allow him to participate... or direct me in anyway as to what would please him. Don't get me wrong.. my ultimate goal is to always bring him pleasure... but when I feel dominanent.. he will gain his pleasure in the way in which I decide.

I have often fantasized about tying a lover to the bed.. often with soft silky scarfs... and taking complete full advantage of every inch of his body... to drive him absolutely crazy with passion.. to bring him to the edge.. time and time again.. without allowing him to actually orgasm.. hehehehe.. to position myself right over his mouth... so that he can pleasure me.. and once he is completely into it.. moving away... hmmmm... what complete delicious torture that would be for both of us...