02-19-2006, 11:35 PM
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Suprise Me
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Posts: 4,259
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Originally Posted by Sharni
My thoughts....Take em or leave em
You're trying to push someone to do something they are obviously uncomfortable with....instead of taking the she doesnt love me cause she wont do it line (a bunch of frogshit if ya ask me)...concentrate on the things she does do for you....theres shitloads more to a relationship then 'she wont masterbate for me'
Regardless of how much you want something...its her damn body...she has a right to choose what is and isnt acceptable
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Ditto! My thoughts exactly!
If I didn't want to do it, no matter how much pushing was done, I am damn well not going to do it! Especially if there was a "guilt trip" associated with it! What pleasure would be gained by either one of you? In fact, if the request was made often, and then there was the "You don't love me" associated with the "NO" then I certainly wouldn't be interested in doing anything at all! In fact, I would dread it!
There are a few things that Cobalt would like me to do or do again, but I am either not comfortable or I am just not interested. He accepts that and KNOWS that I still love him. He would never ask me to do something that I didn't want to do. And he certainly doesn't think that I don't love him if I don't do what he would like me to do...
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