I would be relieved that you're practicing safe sex. It's only natural of us to not want to upset our parents, but realize that you are an adult and engaging in responsible sex is an adult activity. As long as you're going about it in a respectful and non-destructive manner...well, you aren't doing anything wrong.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.