I think Cheyanne is on to something. If you enjoy the feel of the material against you, tell her "Your panties look like the feel so soft. I'd love to feel them rubbing on my cock." Maybe start out by asking her to wrap them around you and stroking you to an orgasm?

If it's the "naughtiness" of the idea that appeals to you, then how about saying "I wonder if your panties would fit me. Is that sexy or weird? I'm not sure."

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.