A freezer-full of frozen pasta sauces, casseroles and such never goes astray.

Teach the kids 911, but teach them how to do it at your place so if there's an accident at your place while they're there, they know what to do. This'll translate.

If you must fuss, do so invisibly, as caring becomes well-meant intrusion wery quickly.

Don't just do all the chores, because hubby's going to need some head time, and hiding behind a noisy mower may be his only "away time".

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