Yes. When you see Aneglina Jolie in Tomb Raider do you think... damn I don't shoot and kick ass anything like that..I must be an inferior ass kicker.

She is a professional actress playing the role of a professional ass kicker. Porn stars are professional actresses playing the role of professional fuckers. Neither is an accurate portrayal. Both are the imaginations and fantasies of someone else being brought to life on a screen. Angelina is not trying to inspire you to be a better ass kicker and the porn stars are not trying to inspire you to be a better fucker.

You are at an age where you are naturally basing your self worth on the exterior things you think other's value. The other's you are dealing with may value looks at your age but as both you and your others mature and move into the world outside of college, you will quickly discover that only during a very small portion of a person's life are looks the #1 value. After that others are looking for someone they can share a life not a mirror with.

You are being too hard on yourself and expecting too much, basing your worth on the value someone else may or may not assign to it. What in you do you value?

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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