RG,
I know we've talked on this before, and as others have said, it doesn't seem like he's gonna change. You gotta do what you gotta do. Talk to him and tell him you do still love him, but you have your needs. If he doesn't come up with anything, then you're left with no choice but to find some way to satisfy your itch.

Good luck Girl!

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"Quando Flunkus Moritatii" (I'm a man, but I can change, if I have to, I guess.) - the Red Green Show



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