RG---I don't know if this will help.Everyone reacts differently.I have;always;been pretty open about anything sexual.My wife has
always;been pretty bashful(old school)Luckily;we can talk about
anything.Tho always fairly open;we talk more openly;since we have been married.(naturally)Many things that I have wanted to do;and my wife has been to bashful;to try;have been initiated;during another sexual act;when she is so horny;that her
resistance is much lower;because;her mind is on reaching orgasm.
After;all of these;years;there is still a slight hesitancy;until;the
initiation phase;is overcome.As;I said;everyone reacts differently!
As in everything else;don't give up;keep trying.You wouldn't have
been with him this long if he wasn't worth the effort.I;personally;
can't imagine;a person;not caring about;a loved ones feelings.
Above all;I wouldn't give an ultimatum!I know that would just piss
me off!Hope this helps. Irish

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