I guess it depends on what kind of sex we're having. During that long, slow sex...I love the deep and gutteral moans. The ones that just escape when she's breathing. She'll gasp and cough when a wave of pleasure hits her in the middle of it, as it catches her by suprise, then she settles down into a relaxing rythym again.

When it's "shut up and fuck me hard, you asshole" sex...well, that's loud and graphic.

I love it when she feels relaxed enough to let herself go, regardless of the voracity of the encounter.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.