To be very honest Ken, after this long trying HARD to encourage him to try different things........AND getting almost nowhere, I've really given up. We have done the counselling thing, several types, and I've picked up a naughty video or two. I've tried dressing up, dressing down.....all sorts of things.
He's just very very conservative.

What will happen will happen (or NOT as the case may be.)

There are sometimes small miracles and I watch and wait for those....but the biggest dreams of mine I KNOW will NEVER happen.

I'll live.