Oh my...
Three years later. I feel a bit more mellow about this question now, feel less like I am being judged.
A good thing, since I may be the biggest slut in Pixies.
I have no idea how many men I have fucked.
Following the rules strictly and ignoring all the fingerings, hand jobs, blow jobs, titty fucking (not that many, men don't like fucking little titties that much) etc, and including only the men I have actually had sexual intercousres with, (including anal)...
More than 140, less than 160... I think.
This number is no longer a big deal to me. Carry on and wail and pray and moralize all you like, I like, no I LOVE sex. And no I am NOT a sex addict. I do see, (or was seeing before I relocated) a psychiatrist, and I am NOT a nympho, sex addict, or lost child looking for comfort.
I am a grown, reasonably smart, sane woman who happens to have a certain relaxed attitude about my body, sex, and pleasure.
As I nurse and certified sex educator I am amply qualified to protect myself from disease.
(I would like to point out that the ONLY STD I have ever contracted was courtesy of a FUCKING RAT BASTARD (ex)HUBBY during the brief time in my life I was monogamous)
Variety is the spice of life.
I don't recall who said that, but it is so true for me.
Every person I have ever had intecourse with was diferent from every other one, different feel, scent, taste, responses, even body warmth. They each felt different, even the smell and feel of their breath on my skin. There were also different attitudes, techniques, and skills. They each in their own, sometimes very subtle way, made me feel different.
And before anyone asks, yes, many of these encounters were in group settings, such as a gangbang, and a couple of BDSM scenes that I loved.
These events were ONLY about pleasure.
Number of women?
Please...
I have no idea or desire to count. I have been with too many women to count, and more were in short term relationships than with men, but so what?
Women offer me more than just sex, (usually, but see group sex note above) but also offer a sort of sexual understanding that I find only in other women.
Besides,the rules said only intercourse, right?
That would mean only the women with whom strap-ons were used, giving or receiving, (that was smore than you might think, so PTHHHHHHHTTTTTTTTTTTPPP!!!!! to earthling 2) andI didn't even try to count those particular partners.
I started to answer this thinking maybe I had matured some in the last 3 years.
I still dont know.
WW
