As I define a slut as a woman who gives not one little flying damn what society thinks of her sexuality and the way she pursues it, I shouldn't be offended by tigertails' comment, but somehow I am.
She manages to imply that being a slut is bad...
I AM A SLUT.
I love sex, I love feeling sexy, and letting the world know it. I enjoy dressing in a way that draws interested looks. It doesn't mean I am cheap, or whorish, as I am neither.
The dictionary defines "slut" as a "slovenly or promiscuous woman"
Slovenly means dirt and unkept. I am most certainly not either. I am a healthy, very clean, and usually well-dressed woman. By many standards a I am upper middle class, well educated, (I FINALLY submitted my Masters thesis Lilith!) and before K, I was a member of two New Orleans women's business organizations. I worked in management, and own my own apartment building in NO, which has been fully repaired and is now fully occupied, thank you.
"Promiscuous". OK, I am. Promiscuous is defined as "having many sexual relationships, especially transient ones." I plead guilty to that. So what?
Because I do love sex so, and certaily lovethe tyhrill of first time sex with a new partner, I am willing, happy even to take the title of slut. Bit I will NOT accept it a a perjorative.
As a atter of fact, today I going to go ride my bicycle along the beach, wearing bike shorts, showing my (admittedly small and hard to see) camel toe. Maybe a bikini top?
thhhhppppp!
Sluttily,
Wicked Wanda
(sorry about climbing the soapbox again Lilith)
WW