Hey Quinda, I could be wrong, but could it be that seeing you've known this guy for a while, and you guys used to talk about everything, he knows about your past relationship(s), and knows what went wrong? Maybe he cares about you so much that, in his mind, the safest thing to do NOT to lose you is to simply do what you want, without risk.

Yeah, yeah, the guys here go "What?" Some guys are like that. Afraid to take risks because they are afraid of messing up and losing their woman. If they know one thing works, they'll stay with that.

Quinda, if that's the case, then just tell him how much he means to you, tie him up so he has no choice in the matter, and have at him!

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