It sounds stupid,unless you think about it!I equate a relationship(sp?)to
fishing.You have your catch & release & you have your keepers!No-one is
exactly the way that you want them to be.If you change them,the main attraction is not there anymore & you can't stand them.My wife & I have been married for 41yrs(May 1 1965)We each have our flaws,but we have
learned to live with them.Communication & trust,plus backing each other up,
are very important! Irish

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)