I hope the doc can help your wife find out whats causing the pain.A sexless marriage isn't really a marriage it's more like living with your best friend. My ex cheated, lied and drank so much when were together that I stopped giving him sex. After a few months passed it didn't bother me. I got used to taking care of my own needs. Since so much time has passed it probably is more routine to her not to have sex. She knows you love her so I guess she's not aware of the damage it's causing to your relationship.I wish you both the best and hopefully soon you won't be able to keep your hands off one another!

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sassy