Bless you boys and thanks.

I was simply using my own situation as an example to point out why women resent men using pornography, by pointing out that not all men are 'forced into a corner' where porn is their only outlet because of an ungenerous wife. There may well be just as many women forced into that corner due to an uninterested husband.

Unfortunately, because of society's view that men are only ever 'interested in one thing' it's incredibly difficult to accept that your husband doesn't want to have sex with you. It's not considered 'the normal' even though it probably is normal, and makes women in this position internalise their feelings.

A man whose wife is not interested in sex may reach the conclusion that his wife is cold or ungenerous, but a woman whose husband is not interested does not reach the same conclusion. She reaches the conclusion that she is unattractive, particularly when he still seemingly has an interest in sex which does not include her (i.e. watching porn). The fact that porn is far flung from reality only makes a woman feel that the reality of sex with them is not good enough for their husband.

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