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Old 11-14-2006, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Oldfart
I'm a firm believer in "Don't talk to me of love, show me!!'

Ha ha ha...I halfway belong to that religion myself...

I love dirty talking, but within the limits of character and region of occasion. For me, it's just not in my character to call a woman either bitch or whore during sex (or in general, except for "bitch" and only when I'm seriously pissed off at a person who done me wrong personally) although I can understand the appeal of it in the interest of the prurient. I can't really knock it if it works for other people. But if I did that, it'd just sound like I was trying too hard or imitating a bad porno flick. I don't think I have enough ingrained force into my speech for it to be taken seriously.

I'm generally a "grunt & groaner" as far as noisemaking is concerned and will delve into sparse, whispered dirty talk in her ear as we're fucking, about our body parts rather than gender-possessive pejoratives. Kinda in the "your pussy is so tight/feels so good" or "how do you wanna be fucked/do you like my cock inside you" vein. That's vanilla enough to start out with, so if she's responsive enough to that, I'll go a little further. I once told a nasty story in this girl's ear as I fucked her, because she liked the sound of my voice enough to get her grind on off of it. That was a lot of fun!

For some reason I don't get lucky enough to have partners who are nasty to be creative with their voice. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind the "moaners only club" ladies, but it would be nice to have someone tap into their inner dark side and just let loose with being dirty. I've only had that a precious few times in my experiences and in my longer-term relationships, it'd come later on after the whole initial sexual shyness thing has passed. Maybe it's something to be nurtured as well as be in nature.
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