circa 1693 - lol (good one ironwood!!)

Wisper -- maybe a less technical definition .... just means you're not committing to one side or the other of a particular topic, thought, etc. ...... its like saying .... "I kind of like _____, but sometimes I don't like _______." both blanks being filled in with the same word ...... I think your b/f is just saying he wants to know your opinion and feels you may be spending too much energy trying to do what makes him happy. - though that would just be a guess on my part.