02-01-2007, 09:03 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Georgia
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Originally Posted by mike'lingerie
Wife knows i like lingerie to wear and look at and now refuses to wear any more(always an excuse). She had found a few things that were mine and she threw them out, i was wondering if any one knows a way to makes it easier for a lady to accept me for likeing this the way i do ?????????????????,
she has the idea that it makes me gay, a perv, a wierdo, a nonuseful thing to her, very kinkey(not a bad thing i think), and some other things too....
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Your wife's idea of what lingerie means seems to be a huge threat. Perhaps she is afraid because she doesn't understand your particular "kink" So instead of trying to accept and understand it she is pushing it away in the hopes that you will return to "normal"
If you want her to embrace this part of yourself then you have to try to make her see exactly what it means. You have to to give her the reassurance she needs. However, some people are never able to understand a certain kink. If that is the case then you have to decide what is important to you. Sometimes we have to hide our kinky ways in order to keep the peace. I hope you can make her see your side of the issue and that she can take pleasure in it with you. |