I know i can never change who she is and i dont want to, i could appeceriate that maybe i would just like for her to be more open minded and understanging of other people views, less narrow minded ...

Some responces:
Lilith
You are asking for her to accept things she has obviously decided she does not want. Is she angry about it or just sure that these things bother her?
--->She says that im not a real man and not good for her in that way....and yes bothers her very much, she thinks not right..

Tingletess
--> would like to do it all be happy and meake her happy and my slef happy, i know its asking for too much in this day and age with such problems but is all too dam much to ask for ...

wyndhy
just threw them out? no talking? no wondering? no interest? no empathy? except calling you names?
---> She responed in beeing defenasive and saying she not good for me, not really talking just laying them out on the bed and saying what are, these, are u gay and such ......but i tryed to explain amd she would say well there all gay and she just well to say the least dosent like it in the least.......(the non usefull was dressing in lingerie, not me)

she had found a few things that i left tucked away in a closet, and i can understand the feeling but it u knew it made ur husband a little happpy would u not maybe wear more lingerie so he didnt have those feeling to try and capture him backj and win him, not be soo all bent and pissed, off for a very long time .....


Peace

thanks

mike
(love all u kinkey fellow people in the world make the reast of us fell normal , and great !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)