If I had some items of lingerie hidden away and Mrs. WI discovered them, I would hope that she'd want to discuss with me not only why I had them...but why I felt like I had to hide them instead of discussing it with her.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.