I'm still a little confused, though...is it the case where she knew about your fetish when you were married and tolerated it up to a point, then decided she'd had enough? Or is it that she's just finding out about it right now?

And as far as you loving lingerie fetish-wise for her to wear primarily, I can't see how that turns her off wearing them for herself. Unless she's afraid she's gonna trigger you off somehow?

Try to find a compromise with her, or let it be known that you'll be doing it without her. Cuz that's what's gonna happen eventually. We all have our own kinks and fetishes that give us joy...and denying their rightful place in our lives (at the appropriate times and places) just makes it worse. When I want to go get off on my big titty porn then I go get it if that's what's gonna make me feel good. You have a gad-damm right to go get you some LaPerla lace panties! I don't think it's an absolute for living that other people need completely understand one's joneses, you know? Especially after you tried to explain your side of the fence once...and that's all you're required to offer.

If I were her, I'd be looking at the bright side...not only does she know the trick to keep your dick hard for her, but she gets free, brand-new, sexy (and possibly expensive) underwear whenever she wants! All I ever get are boxer briefs!

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