I can't honestly say that I don't have some trust issues with women. A long time ago I walked in on the only woman I've ever been engaged to cheating on me. That left a mark I can't deny that. I do my best, however, not to allow what she did to taint my views of other women.

Hey, I'm 39 and still single, I obviously have some sort of committment problem but I am always honest about it with any woman I date. I do not sleep with someone just for the sake of getting laid. As much as I'd like to think I could do it, I know I can't. I've had one one-night stand in my life and I knew I was doing it for all the wrong reasons at the time but I let myself go ahead with it. That was back in '94 and it still sickens me to this day that I let myself use somebody like I did. I may go to my grave without ever "being" with another woman but I have to feel something for a woman before I can allow myself to "be" with her. Not even sure if that's part of what was being asked but there you have it.

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It takes a gutless mouse to play only when the cat's away.

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus