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Old 10-22-2002, 06:32 AM
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Re: ~~Cries~~

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Originally posted by Wisper
but also he told me up front that if she did move in w/ him that somthing would end up happening.....



Wisper~ I know it's not what you wanna hear but but he has clearly told you that you are not his priority. You are very fortunate that he has told you flat out and been honest.........now here is the catch....you have to believe him. He has told you his feelings for you would NOT prevent him from starting something with someone else. For me that would be enough to know I either back off and just allow the relationship to be casual (which it sounds like is too late for you) or I would just get out. I know you love him and that you want to try to make things work out but he has told you how it is. If you believe him then you will save yourself deeper heartache later. ((hugs))
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