Kinsey found that there were an awful lot of 'God's will' abiding married Catholics who had enormous problems with sex, since the sense that "sex is bad" was drummed into them so strongly they were unable to perform normally sexually.

A woman who knows NOTHING of sex or her own sexuality until her wedding night is unlikely to find it an enjoyable experience and her equally ignorant husband will find it difficult to give her an experience that will change her perseption. She'll end up 'tolerating' sex for the sake of fulfilling her 'wifely' duties and we end up in a situation where sex within the marriage bed is tantamount to rape - who knows, sexual frustration for the husband due to lack of proper emotional fulfillment from sex with an unresponsive partner could even lead to sexual abuse within a family or homosexual tendancies as a way of finding physical relief.

At the end of the day, we cannot 'switch-off' our sexuality just as we can't 'switch off' our need to eat. What we can do, is recognise that and be more open to discussion of our physical needs within our relationships, so that we do not have to lie and cheat on a partner who trusts us.

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