#26 and #36 especially - if a guy's going to bark commands and fuck my face, I really will feel like a cheap whore, especially if he doesn't give a hoot whether I've cum or not, or even tried. Heck, if he's going to do that, why DOESN'T he just find somebody who will take $20 for it, rather than want reciprocation.

OTOH, it's NICE to be thanked. Not for great sex, or even good sex, but just for the closeness, for doing what I was doing, for causing pleasure, for caring to cause pleasure. Doing that is showing appreciation. Especially when combined with little things like making SURE I've had "the time of my life", which supercedes even last night's "time of my life", and, especially, sharing on the emotional level..... now THAT'S the ultimate in erotic! And guaranteed to get "many happy returns".

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