Special Pleasures
This is my "special gift".
It requires my total, complete, absolute trust in whomever I offer this to, which is why the number of people I have done this for has been relatively small. (five as of this minute, for a total of about 25 or so different weekends)
Pick a weekend, long weekends are best, a nice four day weekend opens up more possibilities, such as for spontaneous travel, but at the very least it should be from 7PM Friday through 7PM Sunday.
Meet him or her at the door, naked of course. Kneel and present them with a gift wrapped box containing three items:
A picture of yourself, nude, or better yet, taken while you were involved in a favorite sexual activity;
A special item with intense sexual connotations for either your partner or for you, or for the two of you as a couple (for me, this has varied, but the remote control butterfly and the padded handcuffs have proven useful), assuming this item will fit in a gift box. If not, (the sex swing one partner owned comes to mind), a picture if it will do;
And last;
A gift letter, handwritten, best on scented, personalized stationery, that offers you to her or him without ANY limits or conditions of any kind for the agreed period of time, without any recriminations of any kind ("what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" sort of thing) afterwards.
Without limits means just that, with the POSSIBLE exception of your safe word.- (I did this twice without a safe word. The sexual experience was mind blowing, scary, unimaginably intense, and I am getting seriously turned on remembering it right now. OMG!)
No limits means no limits. No recriminations means exactly that.
You can not ever use the events that take place during the weekend as a weapon in an argument! (or during divorce proceedings!)
This tests your trust in your partner, and theirs in you, so if you are not on solid ground, DON'T DO THIS!
Given the adventurous natures of my partners I always put a generous supply of condoms in my purse, some good quality lubricants, sunscreen, and ibuprofen, as well as ID, credit card, and LOTS of cash. So far they all allowed me to have my purse along, but be prepared if they don't.
Clothes (if any) are left to their discretion and selection.
I have spent four days entirely nude more than once, and also twice ended up with a nearly total wardrobe redo. (The fact that I love leather in any form is helpful) While it isn't unusual to have your partner buy you new clothes during these weekends, especially when going out of town, be accepting and gracious. If they buy you something tacky, cheap, or ugly because it shows off your boobs or ass, so be it. You only HAVE to wear it during the weekend, unless you want to try it out at a latter date. (smile)
In the back of my closet I have a pink "stripper's" dress that I wouldn't wear if I WAS dancing. I have also worn it at home twice this last month.
Memories are wonderful things.
During these weekends I have done some pretty wild things, as you might imagine. The fun is in letting someone you love, or at least trust, indulge themselves, encouraging them to explore their own desires, especially some "darker" ones. My taste in partners, such as it is, is pretty different from many of you here, so my own experiences won't have much in common with what you might do.
One thing... men are prone to living out one particular fantasy, and once they have done this, they often are at a loss on what do do next, so be prepared with some ideas of you own. Vacation sex always stimulates the libido, so I always have a few ideas ready. I just pick something intense, and then add something to it that scares me a little.
So far this has worked perfectly. All some men need is a little encouragement.
Mmmmmmm,
I think i just made plans for the weekend...
WW
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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"
---Margaret Cho
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