Also, in Aberdeen a club called Moshulu has a fetish night every few months. lots of toys on sale, and equipment for you to try. Perhaps you could do a search and find out if anything similar happens in your area?

When we started experimenting in BDSM, Lilith suggested searching for 'bdsm surveys' - both f you answer them, so you know what your limits are, what thing you'd like to try etc.

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