Originally Posted by Jude30

I'd like to point out that I feel that if I had said this I would have received a couple of PM's and a few posts following it telling me what I dick I am. Do I really care? Nope not at all I know I can be a bit of a dick sometimes and sometimes I deserve to be called such. I also know I say stupid stuff sometimes as well. And I just try not to let what a bunch of people on a message board think of me affect my self esteem too much.

Though I don't think the member she is referring to as being targeted and ganged up on was Mark or myself but the original poster of that thread. After all I'm the one who ganged up on her originally. Evidently stating an opinion contrary to the popular opinion is ganging up on someone. I was never aware of this but I'm glad to have received the lesson. But until I came here I wasn't aware that one should never state an opinion contrary to that of a new mother for fear of upsetting her either.