This is a checklist for bdsm activities I stole from another site. Use the following key to indicate your willingness to participate in the list of activities.

Willingness quick-key:
? -Don't understand this item.
* -I will do with current sex partner only.
NO -I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
0 -No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1 -Don't want to do, but will.
2 -Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 -Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 -LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 -WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.

Abrasion NO
Age play ?
Anal sex 4
Anal plugs (small) 3
Anal plugs (large) 2
Anal plug (public, under clothes) 1
Animal roles ?
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 0
Aromas ?
Asphyxiation NO
Auctioned for charity 0
Ball stretching NO
Bathroom use control *
Beastiality 0
Beating (soft) NO
Beating (hard) NO
Blindfolds 3
Being serviced (sexual) 4
Being bitten NO
Boot worship 0
Bondage (light) 3
Bondage (heavy) 2
Bondage (multi-day) NO
Bondage (public, under clothing) 2
Branding NO
Breast/chest bondage NO
Breast whipping NO
Breath control NO
Brown showers (scat) NO
Bruises NO
Cages (locked inside of) *
Caning NO
Castration fantasy NO
Catheterization *
Cattle prod (electrical toy) NO
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) *
Chains *
Chamber-pot use ?
Chastity belts (short term) *
Chastity belts (multi-day) *
Chauffeuring (driving) *
Choking NO
Chores (domestic service) *
Clothespins NO
Cock rings/straps 2
Cock worship 2
Collars (worn in private) 2
Collars (worn in public) NO
Competitions (with other Subs) 2
Corsets (wearing casually) 2
Corsets (trained waist reduction) NO
Cross-dressing 1
Cuffs (leather) 2
Cuffs (metal) 2
Cutting NO
Diapers (wearing) 2
Diapers (wetting) 2
Diapers (soiling) 2
Dilation ?
Dildoes 2
Double penetration 2
Electricity NO
Enemas (for cleansing) 2
Enemas (retention/punishment) NO
Enforced chastity ?
Erotic dance (for audience)
Examinations (physical) 2
Exercise (forced/required) 2
Exhibitionism (friends) 2
Exhibitionism (strangers) 2
Eye contact restrictions 1
Face slapping NO
Fantasy abandonment 0
Fantasy rape 2
Fantasy gang-rape 2
Fear (being scared) NO
Fisting (anal) 1
Fisting (vaginal) 2
Flame play NO
Following orders 2
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) 1
Foot worship 1
Forced bedwetting 1
Forced dressing 2
Forced eating 2
Forced homosexuality 2
Forced heterosexuality 3
Forced masturbation 2
Forced nudity (private) 3
Forced nudity (around others) 2
Forced servitude 2
Forced smoking 2
Full head hoods 2
Gags (cloth) 1
Gags (inflatable) NO
Gags (phallic) NO
Gags (rubber) NO
Gags (tape) NO
Gas masks 1
Gates of Hell (male) ?
Genital sex 5
Given away to another Dom (temp) 0
Given away to another Dom (perm) NO
Golden showers 2
Gun play NO
Hairbrush spankings NO
Hair pulling NO
Hand jobs (giving) 2
Hand jobs (receiving) 3
Harems (serving w/other subs) 2
Harnessing (leather) 2
Harnessing (rope) 1
Having food chosen for you 1
Having clothing chosen for you 1
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) 3
Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) 3
High heel wearing 2
High heel worship 0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) 0
Hoods 1
Hot oils (on genitals) 0
Hot waxing 0
Housework (doing) 2
Human puppy dog ?
Humiliation (private) 0
Humiliation (public) 0
Hypnotism 1
Ice cubes 2
Immobilization 1
Infantilism ?
Initiation rites ?
Injections NO
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage ?
Interrogations 1
Kidnaping 1
Kneeling 1
Knife play NO
Leather clothing 1
Leather restraints 2
Lectures for misbehavior 0
Licking (non-sexual) 1
Lingerie (wearing) 1
Manacles & Irons 2
Manicures (giving) 1
Massage (giving) 2
Massage (receiving) 4
Medical scenes ?
Modeling for erotic photos 2
Mouth bits 1
Mummification 0
Name change (for scene) 1
Name change (legal, permanent) NO
Nipple clamps 1
Nipple rings (piercings) 0
Nipple play/"torture" NO
Nipple weights NO
Oral/anal play (rimming) 3
Over-the-knee spanking 1
Orgasm denial 1
Orgasm control 1
Outdoor scenes 2
Outdoor sex 3
Pain (mild) NO
Pain (medium) NO
Pain (severe) NO
Persona training (in scene) ?
Personality modification (RL) NO
Phone sex (serving Dom) 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) 2
Phone sex (commercial provider) 0
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) 2
Piercing (permanent) *
Plastic surgery NO
Prison scenes 0
Prostitution (public pretense) 2
Prostitution (actual) 1
Pony slave ?
Public exposure 1
Punishment Scene 1
Pussy/cock whipping NO
Pussy worship 2
Riding crops 1
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture) NO
Rituals ?
Religious scenes ?
Restrictive rules on behavior 0
Rubber/latex clothing 1
Rope body harness 1
Saran wrapping 1
Scarification NO
Scratching - getting NO
Scratching - giving NO
Sensory deprivation NO
Serving 1
Serving as art ?
Serving as ashtray NO
Serving as furniture 0
Serving as a maid 1
Serving as toilet (urine) 1
Serving as toilet (feces) NO
Serving as waitress/waiter 1
Serving orally (sexual) 2
Serving other doms (supervised) 2
Serving other doms (unsupervised) 2
Sexual deprivation (short term) 0
Sexual deprivation (long term) NO
Shaving (body hair) 0
Shaving (genital hair) 3
Shaving (head hair) NO
Skinny-dipping 3
Sleep deprivation NO
Sleepsacks 2
Slutty clothing (private) 2
Slutty clothing (public) 1
Spandex clothing 0
Spanking NO
Speech restrictions (when, what) 1
Speculums (Anal) 2
Speculums (vaginal) 2
Spitting 0
Spreader bars 1
Standing in corner 0
Stocks 1
Straight jackets NO
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) 2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) 2
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) 2
Strapping (full body beating) NO
Suspension (upright) 1
Suspension (inverted) 1
Suspension (horizontal) 1
Supplying new partners for Dom 0
Swallowing feces NO
Swallowing semen 2
Swallowing urine 0
Swapping (with one other couple) 2
Swinging (multiple couples) 2
Tampon Training (in ass) 1
Tattooing 1
Teasing 1
TENS Unit (electrical toy) NO
Thumbcuffs (metal) *
Tickling NO
Triple penetration 2
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) NO
Uniforms 0
Including others 2
Vaginal dildo 2
Verbal humiliation 0
Vibrator on genitals 2
Violet Wand (electrical toy) NO
Voyeurism (watching others) 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) 2
Video (watching others) 3
Video (recordings of you) 2
Water torture 0
Waxing (hair removal) 0
Wearing symbolic jewelry 1
Weight gain (forced) NO
Weight loss (forced) NO
Whipping NO
Wooden paddles NO
Wrestling 0



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