Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[X ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ X] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[X ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[X ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[X ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[X ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[X ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[X ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[X ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[X ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[X ] Uniforms
[X ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[X ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[X ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[X ] The bath room
[X ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[X ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[X ] Reasonable rules
[X ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[X ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[X ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[X ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[X ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[X ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[X ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[ X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[X ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[X ] Needles and pins
[X ] Cross, rack
[X ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[X ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[X ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[X ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[X ] Being tied and tortured
[X ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[X ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[X ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ X] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[X ] Something I want as much as possible
[X ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[x ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ X] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
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