I feel like that too, WW. I find it almost a turn on that a guy is so aroused by me that he can't control himself. That's not to say that a guy has carte blanche to be selfish and inconsiderate though.

I've heard it said that if you feel you're getting too close, it's good to stop and change position or change to an alternative activity (like pull out of her, and go down on her for a while, or something like that) but I suggest that if it's an issue for your missus, you should chat with her about how she'd prefer you'd deal with it.

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