Saturday night went a lot better than either of had expected.

The event took place at a rented estancia. There were about ten other couples and some selected singles. It started off pretty tame with everyone just chatting and having a drink but then we noticed that there were fewer and fewer people in the main area.

We ended up chatting in the main room with one of the few single guys who had been invited. It didn't take her long to suggest that we find ourselves a bedroom. It was our first non-soft threesome and certainly will not be our last.

We talked about the whole thing on Sunday. Both of us were a little worried that things might have changed but we both felt that it was a positive experience. She was worried that she held me back by only wanting a threesome with the guy, but I felt different. I just didn't want her doing something when she really didn't want to.

She's feeling a lot more comfortable and confident and is definitely game to going again next month.

Thanks for all the advice. It definitely helped!!