Blue Swede, I do hope that you find happiness soon enough....a friend of mine (OK, a VERY close friend) is your age and is married to a very loving man, who cannot, or will not perform, so to speak. She has since found a way to have her desires fulfilled, and still keep the love of her man....in your case tho, I hope you find it all in one package....

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