I use a conditioning razor soap called coochy. It is in most adult stores and it works on the private hair and regular hair but haven't tried it there as conditioner. It leaves the skin silky smooth and they also have a spray as a aftercare lotion spray that is nice

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I love the night
I love the element of danger and the ecstasy of flight,
I love the night
I love to dance with a stranger and to feel his delight,
And when the dancing is through, I kick off my shoes,
And I listen to the beating of his heart