I feel that a woman who has a one-night stand is no 'looser' than the man she's having the one-night stand with. If I was in the midst of a one-night stand, and believe me, chance'd be a fine thing right now, and someone started calling me bitch/whore/slut, then they would risk leaving with a voice an octave or two higher than when they woke up that morning so I agree with you in that respect.

Ouch!

I have to jump to my own defense here and say that just because I get off on this particular role-play with this particular person, does not put me in the category of slut or whore (I won't deny I can be a bitch). I'm not certain whether you were intentionally directing your comment at me so I apologize if you weren't, but that is how it reads to me

As mentioned in my previous post, I role-play with someone, and we've discussed boundaries. He respects himself, and I know he respects me. How? Because we talk about it extensively, and we find out what games we like to play. He has never and says he would never, use that language to a woman in real life, and that's the beauty of phone or cyber sex, allowing oneself to be slightly more risque than in the real world