Miss-Honey-Bee, if you don't tell him how you feel and go along with what he wants, he might just go ahead arranging things because he thinks you're happy to. How would HE feel afterwards if he'd arranged for something to happen that he thought you were happy with and found out later that you hadn't wanted to do it? Surely that would upset him?

You MUST talk to him about this, and if he is a decent man, he will respect your wishes and not push you any further than you wish to be pushed. If he does not respect your wishes, you know that you deserve better, and it's time to walk away.