Being a single mother i find it harder to meet men as i get older. as u say most who have children have them on the nights that i dont work fri sat and sun. most that i talk to are either totally off limits those days or want to run with their friends while i watch their kids. i have often ended up as more a babysitter than a lover. its one thing to lend a helping hand and to get to know and try to help guide the children when appropriate . as fars as my child i have to be w somebody a long time before i take them home to my child. i think that if somebody is responsible for their children and you can enjoy them and get along w theird kids u should accept the situation and enjoy it.