bad : nipple clamps, not allowing them to cum till they pull a good card, soft/hard bondage and heavy tickling, bites followed by ice, dripping wax onto them, spanks

good: massage, cover their body in kisses, partner has to wash them in a nice warm bath/shower, slow caresses, having their body traced with a feather, partner works oil/lotion into their skin

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