I ditto what Steph said;but in my case;my wife and I had enough
sexual contact;between us;to find out that we both satisfied the
other.We were also open about many things;like masturbation;to
allow for the slight difference in sexual drive.Over the years;
intimacy is very important but I think honesty(between each other)is the most important! Irish
P.S.My $.02;speaking from 30+yrs of married experience.We have been married since May 1 1965!

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