I think I was 7 the first time I masturbated. I've never been able to cum using an object in my pussy...sorry hun but thats why I can't cum when we fuck...I have to use direct stimulation on my clit. But the first time I ever masturbated I remember the tingly feeling. It started on my clit then spread outward...ever since then I've been masturbating. I love it and it helps when my bf's no where to be found ^.^