AZ, my heart truly goes out to you, not just for losing someone you deeply loved, but also for not being able to express your grief and share in the comfort that could have been gained from others. It would seem that as far as society's thinking has come, we have so much further to go on an acceptance level. And that's not just to do with homosexuality or polyamory but in all areas. Whether it be a difference of race, religion, ethnic, "social class", size, physical attributes, intelligence, what you wear, where you live........the list of judgemental thinking can go on forever and get even more ridiculous. Even if others don't/can't understand or agree with another's life, at least they should just accept it. As long as the accepted life doesn't produce harm to innocent victims, just let them be, if nothing else.


*steps down from soapbox*

---kathy

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