You are really asking the wrong people here you should ask your wife. Don't go at it as an accusation just say hey I was looking at the usage on the cell phone and noticed you have been texting a lot the last few day don't say you know who it was with. If she tell you it was with this guy and gives you a reason then don't worry but if she lies about who she has been texting with then it's time to worry and ask more questions.

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