06-08-2010, 12:35 AM
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Causer of Unrest
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Arizona
Posts: 4,005
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It is my understanding that the Feeldoe is really meant for girl-girl action, where things get really slippery. Even with a lot of lube, your ass is going to be tight and is going to want to grab on to it. No matter what happens long term, she's not going to develop strong PC muscles in the first session or even the first 5, and that's a lot to ask of muscles that aren't intended to both hold and thrust at the same time; plus, having that internal bit yanked against my pubic bone unexpectedly by a tight ass when I'm grooving would be about as welcome as a stick in the eye. It'd sure be a bummer to blow $80-90 on a toy you'll never use again because of a bad experience.
Everything I've read (including posts at the Yahoo Gentle Strap-on Love group I belong to) really recommends a classic harness and dildo set up for a woman to peg her man. To give her penetrative pleasure, too, you could do beads or a small egg vibrator or something before she straps on the strap-on.
Good luck!
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